Forever Love Includes YOU!
Ever wish you could find your forever love?
Someone who will always have your back, always love you and never leave you?
Well, pick up a mirror. Surprise! She’s you.
Don’t bail out on me here! This is NOT meant to be schlock-central!
Think about it: you’re with yourself 24/7. Why shouldn’t you love yourself best?
You can’t control the thoughts, feelings and actions of others, but you can control your own thoughts, feelings and actions. S o why don’t you? In a way that serves your best interests, no less!
Forever is the time that you are with yourself. Why make that time more challenging than it needs to be? Better yet, why can’t you make your forever wonderful by not just approving of yourself, but loving yourself?
People come and go in life. You can’t control that, as hard as you may try. Folks die, they break up with you, they relocate…but as long as you’re alive, you have yourself as your own company. Why can’t that company be exceptional?
What’s wrong with enjoying the trip we call life? Why can’t you be the president of your own fan club? You don’t have to ignore the wants, needs and rights of others (hello, narcissism) but why can’t you be the highest and best champion of your own wants, needs and rights?
Forever can be fantastic when it comes to self-love, if you choose to look at it as an opportunity instead of a burden.
The best love of a lifetime is the love that you can give yourself for a lifetime. No human being knows you better than you do. No one will ever “get” you, your WHY and your S.M.A.A.R.T. goals perfectly every single time, except you. So you should make the effort to do whatever it takes so that you don’t just survive, but you thrive.
You should have your own back, first and foremost. You should be on your own side forever, and not sell yourself out just to win someone else’s approval and/or love. Again, that person can leave, even involuntarily (i.e., death) but you’ll always have your own company, which you should enjoy the heck out of.
When you build the house of your life on a solid foundation of self-love and self-care, that house is less likely to crumble.
Even if it doesn’t come naturally at first, you should make self-love and self-care priorities. Remember, for every story of “love at first sight” there’s a truckload of stories about people falling in love with someone they might not have even liked terribly much when they first met them.
So…perhaps the story of your forever (self) love will be like the latter and not the former. That’s okay. It doesn’t matter, as long as your goal is to be in (self) love in a way that leads to living happily ever after.
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